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𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐮𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐭—𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐭.

We build personalities as survival suits.
We become exceptional. Charismatic. Needed. Useful. Successful.

Because w...

Food is free.
Shelter is free.
Clothing is free.
Clean water, power, warmth — 𝑓𝑟𝑒𝑒.

Not because someone “provided” it.
Not because of charity.
𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 “𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐢...

I was chatting with one of my friends in the coaching industry about the shift in buying behavior (and how some coaches are still trying pretend there isn’t one 🤔🙃🤷🏻‍♀️)

So I took it to Chat and this...

*Warning: This slices to the core, so read only if you're ready for truth* 

Ever wonder why some people have a seething, almost frothing hatred for "liberals"?

Not disagreement.
Not different ideas a...

Some people are surprised by the backlash to Katy Perry’s trip to space. Let me break it down. 

It was dressed up in empowerment, hope, possibility.

But it came off as a publicity stunt that poured ...

Some days, the grief doesn’t come like a storm.

It comes like a sharp breath.

A slow ache in the bones that says:

“Not everyone I thought would come with me… will.”
“Not everyone I thought would get...

I know you might be raging, love.

Or you may have totally shut down because everything feels hopeless, and it just feels like you're sobbing internally all day long.

Or maybe you're on a pendulum sw...

When Sarah Cook first came to me, she was doing all the “right” things.

🔥 Smart.
🔥 Skilled.
🔥 Showing up.

...And still sweating it out in a business model that gave back 𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑛𝑖𝑒𝑠 for her brilliance.

S...

You can string together a couple of key points with zero context to make a sensational hook story that sets people up to believe in an illusion that will never happen for them

“Come here and make $1 ...

You may have heard stories like this, but they sounded sensational and a little more like fiction than reality, so you wrote it off.

You may have heard my story and thought I must have had characteri...

The other day, someone commented on one of my posts—a post that was lighthearted, self-aware, and rooted in sovereign play.

Her response?

To correct me.
To coach me.
To tell me I was “identifying with...

You were never the problem—your programming was.

Let’s get one thing straight:
You were not born confused, unclear, stuck or blocked

The system you were raised in—economically, socially, psychologica...