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𝐌𝐲 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐌𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫’𝐬 𝐃𝐚𝐲 …
With my kiddo at home 💜💔

It’s a tender day today. It has been a tender year in the quiet moments in our household.

As I unleashed the torrents of grief at the coming moments m...

Living with alopecia has its ups and downs

There is so much vulnerability and nakedness to experience, and at times, quiet longing of women who have hair they can whip around on the dance floor

But ...

Being a native of South Africa, this conversation around the white South Africans is interesting to me. It’s complex in a way most people don’t understand.

I was classified as white because it was il...

There’s this moment.

You hit the goal.
You cross the threshold.
You “make it.”

Maybe it’s buying your dream house.
Maybe it’s $1M.
Maybe it’s just the feeling that you’ve finally arrived.

And then…
a st...

*Keep reading if you are ready for a loving call-out with ZERO shaming*

But your browser history, bedtime thoughts, and Google Docs say otherwise.

You say you’re done with force.

But…
You rewrite yo...

It’s time for a mission announcement.

People keep asking me, “what’s new?” and the truth is:
EVERYTHING.
And also?
Nothing.

Because literally everything in my life has been leading to this moment.
Like ...

𝐈 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞

But I believe in shows of strength.

I believe in self-defense, which sometimes is violent.

But not in retaliation.

I have 𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 agreed with Nelson Mandela’s tactics. As a...

A dear friend of mine messaged today to ask me if I’m okay and I wanted to answer publicly.

No. I’m not okay.

When I’m being attacked and minimized as a woman, no I’m not okay.

When I’m being targe...

Whether you're a devotee of God, Goddess, Nature, or the Creative Force at the Heart of the Universe, you have undoubtedly noticed a deeply rooted quirk about the way it works. It has an intense predi...

You don’t need more strategy.
You don’t need to work harder.
You don’t need to “think positive” and hope for the best.

With everything going on—economic shifts, political uncertainty, and rising stre...

Acknowledging the fact that, yes, in a 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 world everything would be merit & qualification based, let’s dive into why this won’t work in our current society…

As an expert in the unconscious mind,...