I choose to show my mess

And that’s different than the way most people lead in my space. It agitates some peoples’ idea of what success is supposed to look like

(Insert beautiful Instagram montage with white buildings, private jets, crystal clear waters and scarves blowing in the wind)

Some people who are looking for a superhero won’t like it. They want someone who has perfected human-ing to reinforce their delusion that you can be above your humanity. That there’s a place you can get to where you won’t have problems anymore, because “There - THAT lady did it”, they say.

Some people might assume this makes me unfit to lead.

They say “If you’re still experiencing challenges, you shouldn’t teach. And you definitely shouldn’t SHOW it 😱”.

I disagree. 😏

People have actually called me out on it, and told me I talk about my problems all the time.

Yes! Intentionally.

That’s the kind of leader I choose to be! Thanks for noticing.

I’m intentionally deleting and removing the perceived gap that you think exists between you and me. The one that says I have something special that you don’t have.

If I SHOW you pictures of me on the toilet 🚽 (metaphorically 😝) it dissolves the gap and turns up your belief in yourself.

I’m not ashamed of my humanity. It’s the most beautiful, tender thing about me.

And it hasn’t stopped me from building a multi-million dollar business.

It doesn’t stunt my client results. (In fact, I have some of the best results in the industry)

It doesn’t leach my happiness or freedom.

The beauty of it and the entire point behind WHY I choose to lead this way:

✅ My results become achievable for you because I’m not pretending to be perfect. Since you KNOW you’re not perfect it means you can do what I’ve done. You can do what my clients have done.

✅ It means that your messiness is safe here: we don’t judge it, make assumptions about it or make you wrong for it. We won’t “otherise you”.

✅ It means your mistakes don’t define you and neither do your wins. It means you can stumble, and face plant, and we’ll laugh with you, or cry with you (usually both 😆) and help you up while you keep walking on.

✅ It means you’re in good company - there’s a community of us who aren’t pretending we are perfect. And we genuinely have each others’ backs

The secret code to enter our space lies in your willingness to show up real. If you’re looking for a superiority structure - one where I’m teaching you how to be BETTER than someone else - you won’t find that with me.

So yes… it looks messy over here.

Because I’m fully owning the truth.

Human-ing is messy.

It’s not a sexy truth. It’s a bit of a bummer if you’ve believed the delusion.

And that’s no reason why you STILL can’t have everything you want.

It’s real. It’s achievable. And it is genuinely for everyone. 😘💜