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𝐄𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐈 𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐝𝐨.

Like that scene from Unbreakable where he’s testing the edges of his strength. That s...

It’s safe to say that Earth is beyond fucked up right now

We could dive into the list of everything that’s wrong, but we may never actually be able to scrape our way out of that hole

So let’s instea...

For YEARS, I’ve said the same thing on repeat: 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐚𝐱𝐞𝐬.

Not because I don’t believe in contributing to my community. But because I don’t agree with how my money is being spent.

I don’t a...

Miracle Coding: Introducing a new modality

I didn’t set out to invent something

I’m the person that rolls their eyes when someone announces their newly invented modality (which is exactly the same as...

THE GOLDEN HANDCUFFS TRAP

aka "I can see the life I want... but my cells are having a full-blown panic attack about it."

This is the quiet devastation of high-functioning stuckness.

"I hate what I'...

I was the epitome of damaged goods when I met my man…

One of my greatest gifts is his patience and his willingness to come back to the table after I had been a shithead

I’d been working on healing m...

On episode 28 of A Better World with Julann and Fran, I spoke about what drives my work: rewriting humanity’s operating system so that survival is no longer the default—and thriving becomes the norm. ...

Why it takes 600 seconds to shift what 6 years of therapy couldn’t touch

Most people believe that change takes time. And while that’s technically TRUE, the amount of time is grossly overestimated.

H...

Reworking the story that’s pissing you off

I was having a moment today.

We picked the kids up for the beach but we were 30 mins late. They got into the car sullen and quiet, and were short with resp...

I Was Homeless Seven Times. Then I Discovered How To Engineer Miracles And My Clients Have Since Created $1.7 Billion.

And counting.

It doesn’t matter what your journey has looked like… you can stil...

This isn’t about your business. It’s about your operating system.

Parents. Employees. Artists. This was never just for entrepreneurs.

Someone asked me recently:

“Do I need to own a business for Hum...

157 people. One program. And I'm fucking tired.

Not because I'm hemorrhaging energy into their emotional black holes. Not because I'm playing puppet master with their breakthroughs. Not because I'm t...