The other day, someone commented on one of my posts—a post that was lighthearted, self-aware, and rooted in sovereign play.

Her response?

To correct me.
To coach me.
To tell me I was “identifying with a thought,” and “creating drama,” and “continuously posting about problems.”

Let’s be clear:

She was wrong.
Factually. Energetically. Entirely.
And she was smug about it.

That? That’s what hit.

It wasn’t disagreement—it was spiritual superiority.
The subtle, sticky flavor of: “I see more clearly than you. Let me show you the ‘real’ truth.”

And when I mirrored it back, she doubled down.
Passive. Peaceful. Patronizing.

I didn’t meet her from grace.
I met her from fire.
And I’ve sat with that. Because while the truth was there, the charge was too.
It wasn’t clean.

But here’s what I know is clean:

I will not shrink to make smugness feel safe.
I will not let bypassers redirect the room.
And I will not pretend it’s “just a difference of opinion” when someone tries to coach me out of my own knowing.

This isn’t just about me.
It’s about what I’ve seen happen to countless brilliant, powerful, creative people:

They share something playful, or raw, or real.
And someone drops in with “feedback.”
Usually uninvited. Often incorrect. Always cloaked in “consciousness.”

And suddenly, that person shrinks.
Doubts themselves.
Second-guesses their light.
Maybe even stops posting.

No.
Not here.
Not in this field.

Spiritual bypass is a virus.
And if it doesn’t get named, it festers.
And I won’t have it.

This post isn’t about being right.
It’s about being responsible for the frequency I allow in my field. And gently urging you to do the same.

So if you’re watching quietly, wondering whether it’s okay to speak in your real voice, to post without polishing, to lead without appeasing—this is your reminder:

Yes.

You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to be true.